The Rachels of Lad-Rymbai

The Rachels of Lad-Rymbai are the easiest prey for unscrupulous migrants-they step into the trap and by the time they wake up, it’s usually too late.

Telegraph – 6th September 2019

There are several cases of so-called elopement, with local girls ultimately marrying migrant workers, police said.

Telegraph – 6th September 2019

Our Fighting Spirit

Our fighting spirit is on the decline. Hyndai u Rang Khasi u dei u Rang kieng wait kieng stieh, uba hiar thma sha Nepal, Assam bad Bangladesh. Hynrei mynta ki mender ki klun ia ki jaka khappud jong ngi, ki sdang ban leh trai shnong hapoh ka ri jong ngi, ha sor bad sha ki nongkyndong. Kynmaw ba ngi la kylla long teng ki phetwir (refugees) ha la ri lajong ha nongmynsong ha u snem 1997 (Meghalaya Gurdian 4th February 1997). Ngi nang tang ban condemn ha ki kot khubor, ngim nud ban pyni da ka kam. Ngi la shu kylla long tang ki PAPER TIGERS.

Two Killed in City Violence

Miscreants raped a minor girl

Two miscreants also raped a minor girl aged 12 years on Sunday at 11:30 p.m. at Lumshyiap, Nongmensong near Kahkdiat. The rapist aged about 25 years and of the locality wielded sharp weapons.

The Meghalaya Guardian – Tuesday, February 4, 1997

On the other hand, several passengers of a bazar bus including the driver proceeding from a church service at Lumrit of Bhoilymbong to Shillong via Nongmensong were attacked by a mob armed with sharp weapons after blocking the route at Nongmensong.

The Meghalaya Guardian – Tuesday, February 4, 1997

Solutions

As a State, our resources and as a People, our abundant Talent, shall be the bedrock the foundation of our Solutions.

Very Important:

Ka don ka jingiakren sharum shaneng ba u shynrang khasi u long uba lyngkrang, uba lyngkar, u bym lah ban shaniah, uba jaituh bad kumta ter ter.

Te ka jingkylli jong nga ia kito baroh kiba kren beiñ ia u shynrang khasi, lada U Blei Nongbuh Nongthaw U la thaw kyrpang ba ha kane ka pyrthei, dei tang u shynrang khasi u ban long kumtei kumba u la shah kynnoh, te ngim lah ban leh ei ei ban pynkylla ia katei ka jinglong jong u shynrang khasi, namar la thaw ia u da U Blei ban long kumtei.

Hynrei lada dei ka dustur jong ngi mynta kaba pynlong ia ngi ki shynrang khasi kumba ngi la shah kynnoh, te ngi lah ban wanrah ka jingkylla ha ka jinglong jong u shynrang khasi sha kaba bha bad kaban pynkhlain biang ia ka mynsiem iakhun jong u.

According to Barbara Dafoe Whitehead, National Marriage Project Co-Director, USA, marriage is a fundamental social institution, it is central to the nurture and raising of children. It is the social glue that reliably attaches fathers to children, It contributes to the physical, emotional and economic health of men, women and children and thus to the nation as a whole. 

Social scientists have pointed out that one of the main factor for the rapid development of Japan and Singapore is their strong family system and their control over their economy.

Another success story is that of NORWAY. From being known as Europe’s backyard ranked as “relatively poor” just four decades before, to having the world’s highest standards of living and in 2009, the United Nations Development Program (UNDP) Human Development Report, while assesses wellbeing and life chances worldwide, adjudged Norway number ONE and the best place on earth to live. “If at any time easy money together with your abundant natural resources comes to you, be careful how you spend it. And try to share it with future generations”. Says Arve Johnsen. “Utilise your natural resources in the best way, for the good of the people, over the long term”.

Therefore, not withstanding our own position, whether we are still married or single parent or divorced or having unknown or multi-fathered children, we are concerned that our children will get a better deal.

Namarkata, lada ngim kwah ban kylla long rit paid ha la ka jong ka ri ka muluk bad lada ngi kwah shisha ba ka pyrthei kan burom ia  ngi, ngi dei ban pynkhlaiñ shuwa ia la ka jong ka nongrim khnang ba kaei kaba ngi bet bad ngi tei kan long kaba seisoh bad kaba iaineh.

Ban poi sha katei ka thong ka Maitshaphrang Ideology, ngi donkam palat ia ka jingiatreilang jong ki Kynthei bad ki Shynrang ha ki bynta baroh.

Khasi women are friendly, hardworking and intelligent and they are one of our greatest source of strength in our fight/struggle to protect and strengthen the Khasi community and we are confident that they, including those khasi women who are divorced/abandoned and those in mixed marriages will take the role of ka Phan Nonglait when the situation demands.

Ka Agenda jong ka Maitshaphrang Ideology

  • Ngi dei ban tei ki longing longsem kiba skhem – lada don ka jingia pyllait san shyieng (divorce) dei ban ai bai bam (maintenance) Megh. Compulsory Registration of Marriage Act Strong families make a strong nation.
  • Wat la riewspah ne duk, ngi dei ban pynnoh synñiang khambun sha kaba ai jingnang jingstad da kaba bha tam katba lah ei la ka bor ban ai ia la ki khun ki kti, la kynthei ne shynrang ryngkat bad ka jingiarap lem jong ka sorkar…..quality education for all the children in a family.
  • Ngi dei ban long kiba lah ban pynseisoh bad ruh kiba lah ban pynroi pynman ha kano kano ka kam kaba ngi trei khnang ban ngin lah ban bat bad ban pyniaid hi ia ka spah bad ka khaïi ka pateng jong ka jylla.Ngi donkam ia ka Equitable Distribution of Ancestral and Self Acquired Property Act Strengthen economic power of the people through economic empowerment of the all children in a family.
  • Weng noh ia ka Sec. ba pyntlot ia ka Ain Iada Khyndew khnang ban iada ia ka Khyndew ka Shyiap jong ka jaid bynriew Hynniewtrep.
  • A Transparent Govt. make a Responsible Govt. – R.T.I. Act and Lokayukta Act
  • Less of Govt. is the best Govt. We demand devolution of power directly from state Govt. to elected Dorbar Shnong. Dorbar Shnong not Rangbah Shnong to have the final word on utilisation of land.
  • Strong states make a strong nation.  When we become economically strong we shall then demand more decentralization of powers to the state.
  • Ngi dei ban long ka jaidbynriew kaba ia tylli kawei

Intellectual Militancy – 1

  • Dei ban pynduh noh ia ka kyntien “JEMNUD” na ka jingpynkylla “GENTLE as a DOVE” namar na ka kyntien Gentle ka wan ka kyntien Gentleman bad u Gentleman ym dei u briew uba jemnud hynrei u dei u briew uba kloi ban iada ia lade bad ia la ka hok lada don kiba pyrshang ban thombor ia u.
  • U shynrang da lei lei ruh ym dei ban shah ba kiwei kin KYNPHA  ia u ioh ba ka pynjem rngiew pynjem daw ia u.
  • Wat leh beiñ ia kiwei bad da lei lei ruh wat shah ba kiwei kin leh beiñ ia phi. Wat la ngi long ka jaidbynriew rit paid, hynrei lada ngi long kiba kloi ban ialeh pyrshah ia kito kiba leh pyrshah ia ka Jaidbynriew jong ngi, dei hangta ba kiwei ki jaidbynriew kin sa tieng burom ia ka jaidbynriew jong ngi. We are a friendly people, peace loving, fun loving, music loving people, hynrei, phi leh bein ia ngi te, da lei lei ngin nym shah ba phin leh bein ia ngi.
  • It’s natural in most cases that the ‘strong’ exploit the ‘weak’. Pynkhlaiñ ia la ka jaidbynriew ban lait ka jing shah thombor ha kiwei.
  • Ngi dei ban don ka mynsiem iakhun ha ki bynta baroh jong ka jingim jong ngi. Ban pynkhlain ia ka mynsiem iakhun lyngba ka 1) Jing kit khlieh 2) Jinglongtrai, ha ki khun baroh kynthei bad shynrang.
  • Tang ba don katto katne ngut ki kynthei jong ngi kiba iaid laitlan, ki don ki jaidbynriew kiba khein tad dor ia baroh ki kynthei jong ngi. (Ka nuksa na ka jingjia ha Nan Polok, ka ba mih ha u Nongsain Hima 20/5/2011). Let us turn this to our advantage.
  • Ngi dei ban ithuh kino ki dei ki para lok jong ngi bad kino ki nongshun.
  • Iateh paralok (form strategic alliance) bad kiwei kiwei ki rit paid jong kane ka thain (N.E.).
  • Love, are we willing to go the extra mile.
  • Will launch a “be a Linguist campaign”. Sdang ban kren ia kiwei ki jaidbynriew da ka ktien jong ki, ha iew ha hat ha lynti ha syngkien bad kumta ter ter. Kito kiba ia shong kha bad kiwei ki jaidbynriew , kynthei bad shynrang sdang ban kren ka ktien jong u ne ka lok.

Balei nga dei ban ieit ia la ka jaidbynriew?

Namar ba nga ieit ia la ki khun. What kind of environment will they live in, in their localities, in their educational institutions and their workplace. Hato kin ia kynduh ia ki para lok ki ban ia tei iwei ia iwei ne ki ban ia pynjot iwei ia iwei.

Ka jaidbynriew jong ngi, ki samla jong ngi ki long kiba bun sap. Ngi donkam ia ki rukom pyrkhat thymmai (new ideas) ki ban pynshlur ia ki bad ban ialam lynti ia ki.

KA JINGKYLLI MYNTA IA BAROH: Kiba bun ki la duh jingkyrmen ia ka jaidbynriew jong ngi. Kiba bun ki ong, pyrkhat noh tang la ka ïing ka ïing la jong. Katno ngut na ngi, ngi ngeit bad ngi long committed ba ngi lah ban wanrah ka jingkylla bad ka jingkyrmen biang sa shisien ia ka jaidbynriew u Hynñiewtrep, ba ngi lah ban long kynrad biang ha la ka Ri lajong.